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Upcoming Events

True Romance: A Workshop on Expressing Love for the Schmoop-Impaired
In-Person/Online Event
The Pincus Center, 2873 Duke Street, Alexandria VA 22314
Tuesday, August 23, 2022 from 7 PM – 9 PM
$40 (sliding scale available)

You can be an incredibly romantic lover and partner, even if hearts and roses make you gag and you think you have the sentimentality of a rock. The truth is that real romance exists in as many forms as there are people who want to experience it—and the secret is that it’s extremely important to most of us in our intimate relationships. But can it be learned?

You’re in luck if romantic gestures are something you struggle with: YES, you can absolutely learn to be more romantic! Join sex and relationship educator Rebecca Rose Vassy for a workshop that will challenge your assumptions about what it means to be romantic and show you why it’s such a vital skill for anyone who wants a truly deep, meaningful connection with their partner(s).

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Relationship Champ: Up Your Game as a Romantic Partner
Online Event
Thursday, September 15, 2022 from 7 PM – 9 PM
$40 (sliding scale available)

Being in a long-term relationship (married or not) can be HARD. Worse, no one ever really teaches us how to do it—we had to either hope we had good role models growing up, or we had to go looking for resources, and otherwise we just stumble through and do our best. Make up for lost time now by learning skills that will help you build and nurture partnerships that are fulfilling, deep, and based on friendship and joy.

Sex and relationship educator Rebecca Rose Vassy leads you through a series of interactive and reflective experiences in this workshop that will help you take an inventory of your strengths and weaknesses as a partner. From there, you’ll learn skills that will help you be a confident, reliable, and desirable partner.

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Untie Your Tongue: Conversation Skills for All Situations
In-Person/Online Event
The Pincus Center, 2873 Duke Street, Alexandria VA 22314
Thursday, September 29, 2022 from 7 PM – 9 PM
$40 (sliding scale available)

You’ve seen that person: the one who sails confidently into any room, not knowing a soul, and within minutes is chatting up a storm with people like it’s no big deal. Do you envy them and wish you could pull that off? Guess what: You can! Even if you feel like you have the conversational equivalent of two left feet, you can learn to start and carry on a conversation with just about anyone, anytime, anywhere.

This workshop is led by sex and relationship educator Rebecca Rose Vassy, who in her role as a popular local emcee and event host has built the skills to navigate even large and crowded rooms full of strangers with ease. She’ll share her strategies and techniques for talking to just about anyone.

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Leading Edge Love – Tamara Pincus, Licensed Social Worker, Sex Therapist, Author

This week, her guest is Tamara Pincus, Licensed Social Worker, Sex Therapist & Author (www.tamarapincus.com).  Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area.



The Swingset invites Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles, authors of the new book “It’s Called Polyamory” onto the show to discuss the many things people both new and experienced to nonmonogamy, specifically, polyamory, may encounter. They join Dylan Thomas, Dr. Liz Powell, and Chris Pent.

Book Tamara to speak

Polyamory is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate partner.

As a certified sex therapist and psychotherapist, who has also made her own journey through the sexual exploration and acceptance, I am able to bring a unique perspective…

For a lay audience, I have offered classes called “Ask the Sex Therapist” where people can find out what they need to know about sexual functioning, BDSM, Sexual Orientation gender identity and ethical non-monogamy.

I have spoken at such events as the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, AASECT, Greater Washington Society for Clinical Social Work, SSSS, Catalyst Con, Lotus Blooms and the University of Maryland

In the past I have given talks on: How to be a poly friendly therapist Ethics in psychotherapy



Past Events

Making Love to the Whole Body
Saturday, January 4th, 2020

Bring in the new year with a chance to get into your body and learn how to engage your whole self in your sexual expression. This workshop will teach you the basics of sacred sexuality in a comfortable space where consent is valued. We will start with the breath and then move on to some hands on exercises with partners. You can bring a partner or pair up with someone else in the workshop. We will start at the top of the head and work all the way down to the toes. Clothes will remain on. This workshop is open to people of all genders and sexual orientations. Partial and complete scholarships available.

Poly Millennium Dallas Workshop July 13-15
Coming out as poly, a clinicians perspective

Coming out as poly can move the polyamory movement forward and create more acceptance in the greater culture, however it comes with a variety of risks. This interactive workshop will give us the opportunity to learn from each other about various factors impacting coming out experiences including cultural and religious factors as well as personal identity with regards to race, gender and sexual orientation. We will also discuss strategies we can use to make coming out as poly a smoother experience. We will discuss whether and how to come out in a variety of settings analyzing advantages and disadvantages along the way. The presenter will then share some of the expertise she has gleaned working with clients and others in the community around their coming out process as well as on a book about coming out as poly. This will include some of her own personal coming out experiences.

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