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“Sexuality is one of the ways that we become enlightened, actually, because it leads us to self-knowledge.” Alice Walker

When We Believe We Are Unloveable

Many of us walk through the world struggling with the belief that we are unloveable. Often it is hard to even figure out where this message comes from. It starts early when we are young and feel for whatever reason like we haven’t been accepted or loved by those around…

What To Do if You Are The One Accused of a Consent Violation

These days I am encountering a lot of issues where people in various communities to which I belong are being accused publically of consent violations or being abusive in their romantic relationships. This is actually something which we are all susceptible to. Consent isn’t just about sex, but can be…

Lessons from a Sex Therapist Parent

I spent this weekend binge-watching the new Netflix series Sex Education. In the series the main character is a teenage son of a sex therapist single mother. I thought this might be a good opportunity to talk about some of the good things and not so good things that kids…

What sex is healthy?

So now that you have been looking at our webpage and seeing the kind of work that we do you may be wondering to yourself, how do we define what is sexually healthy? This is a really important question and it is one we have to think about a lot.…

The Basics on Fetishes

Even though the concept of fetishes does not appear under this acronym of BDSM, many kinksters get super turned on by certain objects or body parts. Modern kinksters generally reject the Freudian conception of fetishes as evidence of a malfunctioning or immature sexuality that attaches itself to objects because relationships…

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