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“Sexuality is one of the ways that we become enlightened, actually, because it leads us to self-knowledge.” Alice Walker

How Do I Know If I’m Really Polyamorous?

approx. 10 minute reading time Becoming actively polyamorous, for many of us, isn’t a simple choice. If you’re involved with anyone, you have to make sure they’re a willing (and ideally eager) partner in this adventure. If you’re not, you might have to find new places to look for partners.…

Grieving Roe: How to Care for Your Mental Health in Terrifying Times

It’s like waking up into a nightmare: You got your coffee, clicked through your notifications, and there it was: The Supreme Court’s theocratic wing overturned Roe v. Wade. Most of us have feared this possibility our entire lives, but that doesn’t mean you’re emotionally prepared for the reality of it.…

Understanding Your Neurodiverse Partner (Part I)

approx. 7 minute reading time You’ve met someone wonderful and fallen deeply in love. They’re smart, honest, passionate about their interests (on which they’re kind of an expert). They made you feel like the center of their world. They had some quirks, and it just made them more unique. You…

Understanding Your Neurodiverse Partner Part II

approx. 10 minute reading time In Part I of this post, we talked about some common relationship problems when one partner is neurodiverse and one is neuroprevalent, and about understanding the ableism ingrained in our culture's ideas about love and romance as well as everyday life. Cassandra Syndrome, Affective Deprivation…

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